The Scampering Horse

I lived in Beijing, China in 2007 for a few months. We left Las Cruces, NM and flew into the bustling airport of Beijing in February and came home in July. Ian studied Chinese language on a study abroad. I kept up my masters degree classwork online. It was so stressful. Naively, we went relying on the college to help us with housing, but once we got there we were informed that there was no married student housing. Students in China are not allowed to marry while going to college. We were homeless in a place where I was completely reliant other people to take care of  me. I was taking care of my first baby. She was nine month old, and I was newly pregnant with baby number two. I was sick. I was super hungry, and finding food was kind of hard and confusing. Grocery stores weren't plentiful, transportation was difficult, and we didn't know where things were. It was cold. So cold. We lived for a couple of weeks in a motel that smelled like smoke because smoking outside isn't

"Gratitude turns what we have into enough." -a yellow internet meme One of the things I did in my counseling sessions, and the assigned homework, was focus on gratitude. It was really hard at first, because my gratitude list was short and shallow. But, it got longer, and better. This weekend was a tough one. I don't know if you know, but something bad happened in Paris. Humans killing massive amounts of other humans is one of my depression triggers. The senseless brutality that comes on families is like a force of nature that comes without warning. So, I was on edge. I could tell I was getting triggered because I started yelling at my family about how dirty the house was and nobody was helping me. I felt the need to get out of my house and away from my children. It is the anger stage, before the sadness comes on. Scary. So, it is time to be grateful. 1. Heather Holm beat Ronda Rousey: I love this fight. I am a New Mexican girl, and Holly is a fellow green chile

So, I am a big time actress now. I have been rehearsing a show for a couple of months. I have 4 co-stars and the play we are performing is "Parallel Lives." It is a show with vignettes from women's lives. I play a migrant farm worker with 8 children, a man who wears a baseball cap, a shy lady without a tampon, a teenage girl who just watched West-Side Story, an angel, a deer, a fish, a 60 year old woman who went back to school, a lesbian vegan poet/performer, a Southern damsel with strange ideas about love, and a woman getting ready in the morning. It is a busy show. My favorite dialogue is when I am Gina, talking to my best friend Annette about love, and her boyfriend. My favorite scene is when I am a lesbian vegan poet/performer because I am shockingly eccentric. I have a really hard time not laughing and staying serious in that play. Since I am a big time actress in a small town community theater, I recently did an interview with myself, asking all the hard questions.

Yesterday I ran a 10k in Gering, NE. I drove down alone, and met a new friend who lives in another town. We don't know each other very well, but we both enjoy running, so that is usually enough. We talked before and after the race. During the race she was busy getting 1st place out of all the women, averaging a 7:30 minute mile pace. I know...speedy. I was...further behind trotting along at my 9:40 mile pace and feeling every single step of it. Seriously, it was as fast as I could go, and I had a side ache, and breathing was tough, and my left hip/knee were a little ouchy. Last year, I ran the very same 10k, with this bunch. A year ago at the same race. We drove together, and ran. Then we went to Target and ate steak nachos. It was our only race as a group. I had such a great day with these women. I had trained and ran my first and second half marathons a month or so before this day. A year ago, I led the pack, with my friend Kelly right behind me.  Last year I got second

In my 7th grade Civics class we learned about Civil Rights. In the book there are three pages with information on Rosa Parks, The Montgomery Boycott, Martin Luther King Jr., Brown vs The Board of Education, and the 15th Amendment. Is also had a line mentioning Freedom Riders. Who were they? Well, I learned about an amazing movement of nonviolence, civil disobedience, pushing against social structures of injustice, and the power of unity. A group of people had an idea to start in Washington D.C. and ride the bus to New Orleans. Simple. It was a group of black and white people who wanted to desegregate public transportation. Diane Nash there in the middle. Look her up. Well, not just people. People whose ancestors had been forced into slavery, manual labor, sexual violence, forced family separations, physical brutality and all of the issues that forced abuse does to emotions and minds. I have learned all about what emotional abuse does to children. The statistics aren't